Short guys and dating
Hi Kristina, I totally understand what you are saying and I can relate to this.As a man, I will never date women with flat chests.For example, O’Connor and colleagues (2014) discuss how women find men with lower-pitched voices more sexually attractive. Women want taller men more than men want shorter women. I also feel safe emotionally with him because of his kind personality.
If we conceptualize the dynamic along a continuum of developmental stages, it’s as if women see short men as awkward teens stunted in time, desperate at a school dance and relegated to the side wall.I only date women that have breast size D and larger. Flat chested women, average sized breasts and saggy breasts makes me feel like I'm dating a kid or a little girl. Also, women with large breasts that are saggy makes it feel like I'm dating a grandma.If a flat chested woman or a saggy breast woman gave me the feeling of actually dating a real woman, then I would give them a chance.(And don't get me started on the deep voice argument.) Most importantly, what is completely illogical about the stigma of short men is how the physical size of a man has so little to do with who he is on the inside, and it’s precisely internal—aka personality—characteristics that matter in terms of how good a partner or husband a man can be. I always cringe when a person says something that rules out an entire category of people, especially when someone rejects another in a flippant, auto-pilot fashion. Perceptions of infidelity risk predict women’s preferences for low male voice pitch in short-term over long-term relationship contexts. For me a romantic relationship is useful: keeps me from being lonely, he can protect me from things like bears and creepos, sexual satisfaction, and we can depend on each other for emotional and financial support.In other words, if what women want ultimately for a long-term relationship is an honest, reliable, and committed man, short men should not be ruled out! "Yeah, sorry," you can imagine someone saying, "I've just never been attracted to short men." While so many women report this preference, I rarely hear any of them self-monitoring as they do so. Men's height as a reason to "feel safe" is the SAME REASON that you have the NEED to feel safe. society taught everyone that the tall man is better and thats that or maybe its also inside us that bigger is better thats why we have $$$$ $$$ is the great equalizer thats why society is going towards the 1%ers thats why we are not fair with money thats how shorter guys get the girl 5'9 with millions is much better than 6'0 and a tough life so many people wont have jobs in the years ahead cause we dont need most people they will be weeded out just like women weed out shorter guys women are super superficial.